so last week i was chatting with several of my relatives and someone piped in saying that the best way to charm guys was not by being extremely hot but by being extremely nice.
it sounded quite simple but to me quite untrue. as someone who has been single for the entirety of her life, my problem had always been getting someone to actually look at me before i could ever get to be nice to them. and so for the majority part of my 20-something lifetime, my focus had been on becoming better-looking, at the very least.
this whole becoming nicer concept is completely lost on me.
but this morning, as i was sipping on my second cup of coffee, it hit me: what if i had been approaching things completely wrong?
perhaps extreme niceness really was the key?
hmm. must. give. this. more. thought.
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