tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-58206402024-03-08T08:26:20.315+08:00happily lost!Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.comBlogger421125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-46501648670528526242015-01-26T19:49:00.000+08:002015-01-26T19:49:09.809+08:00A beautiful blur<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Sometimes life goes by deliciously fast<br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;">
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Life went by rather quickly in 2014. I haven't had time to sit down and take stock of every thing that's taken place. Life swept me off my feet so grandly, and if I am never swept away by any kind of love affair in my lifetime, I will look upon 2014 and still feel that life has given me enough.<br />
<br />Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-32750238618062555282014-03-12T07:14:00.000+08:002014-03-12T07:14:30.233+08:00new things<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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It's 6:27 AM by my watch right now, but I have been up since 5:30 in the morning. I was feeling really sick last night, so I found myself asleep in bed by 7. I actually woke up at around 2AM (about an hour before I find myself going to sleep most days), but I forced myself to go back to sleep -- partly because I was sick, partly because it was so dark out. Anyway, I'm so happy that I did.<br />
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I've been wanting to wake up early like this for months -- years, maybe. I can't count the millions of times that I've told myself I was going to wake up early, only to wake up some time past 10 (barely 11), frantic and needing to forego breakfast just so I can catch up on my day. I've forgotten what it feels like to not feel tired when I wake up in the morning. I kind of like it, this quietness, this absence of rush that is so pervasive when I find myself waking up at 8 or 9, after having worked till 2 or 3 in the morning. Maybe, after all those years of being a night owl, I am becoming a morning person.<br />
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I am trying to think of all those times in my life when early mornings were part of who I was. There was the month I spent living in a hotel for the Presidential Youth Fellowship, waking up at 5 AM so that I could get first crack at the bathroom (was kind of the mother hen who made sure everybody got up on schedule, and was dressed and down for breakfast in time). Then, there were those 3 weeks in Dumaguete, spent being the first person in our cottage to wake up, so that I could have quiet time to write in my journal. I've always wondered why it is that I find it so easy to get better starts to my day when I am away from my own home. I suppose, I always chalked it up to my desire to escape to somewhere else -- that when I am far away from where I am, far from the pressure and the drama, the burden of comparison, that I can truly be myself.<br />
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Yet, here I am, in my old room, same old me, up at 5:30, writing this blog post by 6:30. I am kind of grateful for the fever which forced me into bed early, actually.<br />
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It seems like such a small achievement, waking up before someone wakes me, but I feel like this is a good omen. For months now, I have been really unhappy with my circumstances, and am contemplating a change. It sounds silly, but there's a part of me that feels like if I can just make myself wake up early in the morning, I can do anything -- letting go of the safety job, applying for the MA I really want, going after a teaching position, surviving the move abroad.Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-32259625142229572862013-06-09T22:13:00.002+08:002013-06-09T22:13:56.607+08:00slivers<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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You have come and gone into my mind far too many times now to ignore, I suppose. I don't know what to tell you, actually. I have no words for what I feel, or what I think I feel, or what I think I should be feeling for you. Not that you are asking.<br />
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But if you were, I would tell you that I find myself remembering moments -- your hands on my shoulders for that one song, you repeating to me words we both loved, the quiet smiles we exchanged but never talked about -- and wondering if there is any space or time where I wouldn't find you and me together strange.<br />
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Maybe there are only those shards of time, those split-second, blink-and-you'll-miss-it moments where I feel myself falling for you, when I allow myself the luxury of <i>what if</i> and <i>if only</i>, right before I catch myself and remind myself that being an "us" is far too bizarre to make sense. Maybe, those ought to be enough for the both of us.<br />
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And yet, my mind keeps going back to you. Why?<br />
<br />Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-42983849228015443152013-05-01T00:24:00.002+08:002013-05-01T00:24:49.008+08:00all good things<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">there's always some good in every day. Image from <a href="http://www.superherolife.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/good_things.jpg" target="_blank">here.</a></td></tr>
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The busyness of March left me without time to write a birthday post, yet I couldn't help thinking of how wonderfully this year is turning out.<br />
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2013 has been filled with so many good things that there are few things I could ask for.<br />
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Courage, I suppose -- to leave what I am comfortable with so I can live my dream.<br />
Diligence, to push myself to work as hard and as well as I know I can.<br />
Persistence, to commit myself to a path towards healthiness.<br />
Wonder, to observe and witness the great things happening everyday.<br />
Abandon, to throw out my armor and break down my walls and finally let life happen.Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-52383398421556017732013-03-06T01:02:00.001+08:002013-03-06T01:02:43.099+08:00the universe is listening<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Image from <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGzfeZyKqhrx8N52TKbDb9grI7e2x0WM_Qr6DkZRVJlUG2HVD36Alw83u9D-1p2Ms18NZqRnd4lAQ60eWrFTADTs7yhPqc-xCc_oP-bCai-I0dVhHsm9DIjvzPgz8x51IiPSOb/s1600/touching%20souls_jpg_opt886x656o0,0s886x656.jpg" rel="nofollow">here.</a></td></tr>
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I think when it's your heart that's speaking, the universe listens. Harder. Today, the universe listened. It set me on a path that I wasn't sure I was meant to take. I wasn't sure I could give myself permission to tread it. <div>
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Maybe this is the universe's way of saying -- HERE IS YOUR PERMISSION. Here is the validation you need to take a bolder step, maybe even a leap. Here is the thing you need to believe that when you jump off that cliff, you will fly. </div>
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March 5, 2013. I am one step closer to becoming a writer today :)</div>
Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-40745060654803732042013-03-05T01:29:00.001+08:002013-03-05T15:24:28.323+08:00things falling apart<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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Things are falling apart in our house.<br />
There is the light in the living room with the faulty starter,<br />
the light in my bedroom which pretends to be working until I replace the glass lid and then it doesn't,<br />
the fake old wood varnish that is chipping away from my cabinets,<br />
the creaky front door that sags and scratches the floor when you close it,<br />
the invisible leak that jacks up our water bill,<br />
the ratty couches with their springs exposed,<br />
the wooden floorboards that have become uneven over time.<br />
This is not really my house, I just live here.<br />
But there is the feeling that I am supposed to be <i>doing something</i> <i>more</i> than taking note<br />
of all the things that are getting run down<br />
because these things are happening on my watch, and my parents<br />
are now just watching me<br />
grow into the supposed adult shell that I have developed.<br />
But I haven't.<br />
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1:33 AM March 5 2013Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-34689171760944928732013-03-04T01:22:00.000+08:002013-03-04T01:29:40.533+08:00time slips away<div style="text-align: right;">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Image from <a href="http://thomallison1.files.wordpress.com/2009/07/dalitime.jpg" target="_blank">here.</a></td></tr>
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My father turned 60 today. Yesterday, we had a nice day, celebrating the milestone year. I took them to see a play and to dinner and we were all rather pleasant because of the experience. I was distracted by the idea of what having a 60-year old for a parent meant. And then as we were pulling out of the mall parking lot after the play, I realized that there might not be a lot of years left when I could rely on my dad to drive us to places -- the thought terrified me. Not even of him dying, though everyone dies -- just the idea that he would be there but unable to fulfill the functions I had grown up being used to: driving, getting cars fixed, having all the answers, things like that. It made me feel so inadequate and unprepared for anything. <br />
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Today, during his all-day birthday party, I had a similar thought again. My grandmother was here for the celebrations, and while I was trying to coax a birthday greeting out of her, I realized that she was no longer as lucid as I thought she was. I realized that she could barely open her eyes because she no longer saw very well. I want to say that this is what a big big family does (you could go on living not thinking about your grandmother because there are too many of you to think about) but I really don't want to use that excuse. I can't believe that so much time has passed and despite my grandmother living a few minutes away, I have not taken the time to know her beyond the cursory "hello" and "how are you" when I come and go. She was lying on the couch (she has been immobile since she broke her hip a couple of years ago) and as I was trying to get her to recognize my voice, I rubbed my hands on her legs and she smiled. It was a little girl smile, a smile I didn't see on her face when my grandfather was alive, or when she was lucid for that matter. It made me realize that it must have been so long since someone rubbed her legs like that -- since she felt anything about her legs like that, and it made me smile that even when she could no longer recognize me, I could comfort her by simply rubbing her legs. I wish that I had given her more, that I had more to give back when she still knew the difference.<br />
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The idea of time passing makes me nervous. What have I done with the time that's gone by?Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-54942720557802377952013-02-28T20:42:00.003+08:002013-02-28T20:42:47.907+08:00acceptance<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Hope. - Image from <a href="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m835qstAgJ1qm2mnpo1_1280.jpg" target="_blank">here.</a></td></tr>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">found this on a friend's blog and just thought it incredibly beautiful. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>You Must Accept</i></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i><br /></i></span>
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">You must accept that's who he really is.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">You must accept you cannot be his</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">unless he is yours. No compromise.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">He is a canvas on which paint never dries;</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">a clay that never sets, steel that bends </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">in a breeze, a melody that when it ends</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">no one can whistle. He is not who</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">you thought. He's not. He is a shoe</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">that walks away. "I will not go where you</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">want to go." "Why, then, are you a shoe?"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">"I'm not. I have the sole of a lover</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">but don't know what love is." "Discover</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">it, then." "Will I have to go where you go?"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">"Sometimes." "Be patient with you?" "Yes." "Then, no."</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">You have to hear what he is telling you</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">and see what he is; how it is killing you.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"> - Kate Light</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I felt it for a love, for a dream, for a possibility. How apt. </span>Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-33226125561414085322013-02-04T14:52:00.003+08:002013-02-04T14:52:54.512+08:00things I've loved lately<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">lovely. Image from <a href="http://ih2.redbubble.net/image.9769886.4350/flat,550x550,075,f.jpg" target="_blank">here.</a></td></tr>
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Days have been filled with busy work -- but at times, I found myself smiling, laughing out loud because of some random lovely moment which reminded me of how lucky I am to be where I am right now.<br />
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Like last week when I was able to escape for a bit to catch the tail end of Sir Butch's open lecture on Hagiography - I wasn't able to listen to the lecture in its entirety but I was just so happy that I had the opportunity to listen to him, that I had such brilliant writers like him to teach me.<br />
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<i><span style="font-size: x-small;">I had a thought when I was listening to him though, that made me a bit sad -- listening to him reminded me of the version of my dad that I loved so much, back when I believed he was infallible. But I suppose that is the reality of being human -- that no one is entirely good or entirely bad, and so you have to pray that the people you deal with are more good I suppose.</span></i><br />
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This morning, I had to laugh out loud at a pleasantly strange classmate who sang every thing sir Jimmy said out loud, like it was the most normal thing in the world. And he wasn't sent out, and he wasn't scolded even -- you have to love cool professors and kooky classmates like that. Must remember to take a photograph with class next time.Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-30671422773098622992012-12-03T00:09:00.000+08:002012-12-03T00:09:59.738+08:00somethings and nothings<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">What lovely words. Image from <a href="http://feelgoodfrenchstyle.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/Winter-Summer-quote_Camus.png" target="_blank">here.</a></td></tr>
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So November has come and gone without me even writing a post, which is really just baaaadddd.<br />
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It has been a mix-up of good and bad things and mostly me trying to struggle with deadlines and me trying to sneak out to get to a lecture or to have time to see friends and attempt to have a life.<br />
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I have been busy yet there is this feeling that the busyness that has taken over is filled with such insignificant things.<br />
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It's not a bad place, where I am, but I am always questioning why I am unable to move past this -- to wow myself and the world in ways that I thought I would.<br />
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There is the feeling that I have been filling my days with "nothings" and this is why I haven't written -- but then again, I suppose things it is up to me to make "something" out of things. What makes a moment, a thing, a person special anyway?<br />
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When I began the idea for writing this, I was thinking of how I felt left behind by my peers -- My body has forced me to graduate through certain phases of my life, but I don't necessarily feel as though I've recovered.<br />
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There is that feeling of always just needing to catch up on life.<br />
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Now though, all thoughts turn to a dearest friend who has encountered a sad thing. Why do things happen the way they do anyway?Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-616860130431676842012-10-06T02:02:00.000+08:002012-10-06T02:02:20.422+08:00Butterfly visits<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Hi Dada! Image from <a href="http://macro.art-scene.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/drugelis_1.jpg" target="_blank">here.</a></td></tr>
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I lost my grandfather when I was five. I was really young when he passed, but I remember really loving him, and really feeling loved by him as well. Though I was too young to feel pain after his passing, I still really miss him. I find myself thinking about him all the time, and feeling as though he is watching over me -- my own personal guardian angel. I suppose it is why whenever I find myself feeling worried or nervous about something, I find myself calling out to him and asking for intercession, or guidance, or a little bit of courage.<br />
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Today, I called out to him once more, as I was cramming for an exam that I had not studied enough for -- there just wasn't enough time after being sent out of the country for work and then coming home to a stack of deadlines both for my master's and my two jobs. As I ran my eyes over the text, in a mad dash to remember as much as I could, I called out to him. I asked him to help me remember everything I read, to calm my heart so I could concentrate more, and to just help me get through the day. I remembered too that it was his death anniversary. He passed away on October 5, 1987.<br />
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This morning, as I was on my way up to get dressed for the test, I saw a tiny brown butterfly hanging out on the staircase. It was not the showy kind, very much a plain-jane butterfly if there ever was one (and my lolo was not a showy person himself). I had to take a closer look, because I was still feeling dizzy from lack of sleep. It was there, just like it had been in many other points in my life, most often on the day of his death anniversary. It was telling me he had heard me, and that everything was going to be fine.<br />
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I got to school calmer, though still a bit worried that I did not know enough to pass the test. It got rescheduled to a week from today, giving me ample time to get everything done. I wanted to smile at heaven and wrap my arms around my lolo, to blow a kiss at my brown butterfly who had come down all the way from heaven to tell me that everything was going to work out. Thank you Dada for always looking out for me. I hope that in spite of my failings, that when you see me, I make you proud. I miss you all the time, but I find comfort in knowing that you are somewhere far better than here. Till we meet again!Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-53999514579913311542012-09-03T01:17:00.002+08:002012-09-03T01:17:47.353+08:00Limbo<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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There is a churning feeling in the pit of my stomach, this in spite of the realization that I have spent a over 5 months living life as a grownup, what with the job and the not-too-shabby salary and the grad school units even.<br />
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I tend to flip-flop with the way I feel about my life now. At times, it feels pleasant (or is it dulled down?), and then I find myself subdued at the thought that I am finally growing comfortable with my life.<br />
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And then there are moments like these - when I am faced with all the things I am scared to do, like leaping really big. Like letting go of what little ties I have made in order to try for a bigger thing. Like taking a risk.<br />
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All of the pleasant feelings I have had about my life so far have felt like settling down all of a sudden. And not in a good way. They feel like giving up more than anything. On myself. On my dreams of finding a version of me that is better than this. I want to swim away, but I can't.<br />
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I want to absolutely love the life I am living. I want to not merely be able to tolerate it.Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-26852653000446292022012-08-12T12:23:00.000+08:002012-08-12T12:27:15.958+08:00Rest<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Rest by Pearce Highsmith (Image from <a href="http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/2/2e/Rest-Pearce-Highsmith.jpeg" target="_blank">here</a>.)</td></tr>
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I finally have gotten to the point where I realize how vital rest is. When I was much younger, weekends were very much restless days, spent arguing with myself (and my parents) because I wasn't making the most out of it. I felt then that weekends were best spent outside, doing things and meeting people and finding someone to fall in love with and things like that. Now, on the weekends, I am just incredibly happy when I get to rest -- and by rest I mean literally doing nothing, lying down, breathing in and out, having nothing on the agenda except to watch movies, read, eat and sleep.<br />
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I did just that this whole weekend. I was supposed to study for midterms, but after I found out that my midterm was pushed back, I settled into the weekend whole-heartedly. I lounged out on the lanai and sipped my coffee slowly, while I read cookbooks. I watched a lot of movies - classics and fluffy ones alike. <i>A lot of movies. I watched two last Friday, four yesterday, and a sprinkling of tv shows in between that. </i>It doesn't sound like much, but it was glorious.<br />
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This Sunday morning was spent eating a lazy breakfast with my brother, and then writing this entry while listening to the Garden State soundtrack, which is awesome. Can't believe I didn't discover it till this weekend.<br />
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There isn't much more to my weekend than that, but it was just what the kind of weekend that I've been praying for for a long time. Thank God!<br />
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<br />Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-20746985024382579912012-08-05T00:35:00.004+08:002012-08-05T00:35:40.905+08:00friends<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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I often wonder if I am the most insecure person in the world. <br>
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I spent most of this weekend with friends. Last night, I had an impromptu dinner with my high school barkada.We met up for ramen and girltalk and then sometime after when we went to get drinks, I found myself settling into this funk, questioning what my place in the group was, why my friends found value in being friends with me, how it would have worked out if I weren't part of the group, things like that. It was unfunny because I have been asking myself these questions for over 15 years already, or since we first became friends when we were in high school. Then, I was the overeager girl who wanted so much to be liked by everyone, who walked on eggshells because I had a hard time finding a middle ground between perky and annoying. I still sometimes think I am that girl now. If I have some kind of label that tells other people that I am a sad person who must be kept at an arm's length.<br>
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<a href="http://happilylost.blogspot.com/2012/08/friends.html#more">Read more »</a>Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-65280609521724475102012-06-11T01:11:00.001+08:002012-06-11T01:11:55.278+08:00does it matter if you know why?<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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This evening, my mom, dad, and I went to watch my brother's choir (the Ateneo College Glee Club) in concert. It was their return concert after touring Europe for over a month, mainly because they competed for the title in the European Grand Prix.<br />
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During the concert, one of the choir members shared his thoughts as they prepared to compete -- the feeling was familiar, he said, because he had competed for the title with the choir nearly 10 years ago. Both times, the grand prize title eluded them.<br />
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Upset, he shared how he had to ask himself why; why did they keep on losing? Why then, why now? And then, he said something which struck a chord in me. <i><b>Does it really matter if you know why?</b> </i><br />
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In the end, he said, it mattered more how hard they had worked to compete for that title again. It mattered that they did it anyway, win or lose.<br />
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Those words, along with the great music of the choir, made me think of the "whys" in my life. Why I stuck to some things and quickly abandoned others. Why I felt the way I did about many things and many people. Why I was placed in the circumstances I was in now.<br />
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Personally, at this point in my life, I find that the whys aren't as important as what I am doing about them, and how I am addressing them given what I have at my disposal.<br />
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As though by magic, I found myself stumbling over this favorite quote of mine by Rainer Maria Rilke, taken from Letters to a Young Poet. This pretty much sums up how I feel about the questions now.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">One of my favorite quotes EVER. Photo from <a href="http://jesuiscommejesuis.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/929595i-beg-you-rainer-maria-rilke-posters.jpg" target="_blank">here.</a></td></tr>
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May we all live our way into the answers!<br />
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<br />Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-31736037174838030162012-06-11T00:31:00.002+08:002012-06-11T00:31:22.067+08:00Ingredients for a perfect day<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Tb2gHBFq1e0/SExjYvBzJMI/AAAAAAAAAd8/YkUqMS043sw/S1600-R/today.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Tb2gHBFq1e0/SExjYvBzJMI/AAAAAAAAAd8/YkUqMS043sw/S1600-R/today.jpg" width="357" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Image from <a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Tb2gHBFq1e0/SExjYvBzJMI/AAAAAAAAAd8/YkUqMS043sw/S1600-R/today.jpg">here.</a></td></tr>
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These past few months have been incredibly busy for me, and I can't say that I don't feel blessed by them, because I do. I've been meeting a lot more friends, having more interesting experiences too. I am working on my Master's Degree in Creative Writing, something I find myself very excited about, and I have writing jobs that allow me the freedom to work from home, and that provide for me in ways that I never thought possible -- especially just a year after failing the bar.<br />
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The downside to these telecommuting jobs though is that I very rarely get to meet people. I tend to be cooped up in my room while I am writing and so apart from the occasional chat with friends online, I get so little interaction with the human world during the work week. I miss having real conversations.<br />
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The beauty of having a fluid working schedule such as mine is that I actually can do more with my time, if only I could let go of the little distractions. I don't have to wait for the weekend to have a perfect day, because I have the beginnings of a great day already! I thought I would write down a couple of elements that make up a perfect day for me, in the hopes that I have more great days to remember -- life is short after all!<br />
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So here they are, in random order:<br />
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1. Good food<br />
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Okay, okay -- I know (especially now that I can't have this kind of breakfast every morning, but it just occurred to me that because I work at home, I actually have the luxury to cook whatever meal I want. I grew up not liking vegetables (still don't for the most part) but I've had salads that have blown my mind away. I've been raring for the opportunity to integrate more healthy dishes into my diet -- and so now I am hopeful that I can have more delicious and interesting salads and soups for dinner instead of the heavily-meat -based viands + blechy veggie dishes and rice that we often have. It will take some more effort and expense on my part, but I have to begin now!<br />
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Here are some of my meal pegs that I hope to work into a meal plan for the coming weeks:</div>
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I've been working on my own version of perfect oatmeal because I know that I can only have those kinds of breakfast on the weekend. For the most part, I think I can stick to this kind of breakfast for as long as I am able to keep my oatmeal interesting. </div>
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I was lucky enough to find antioxidant booster dried fruit packs with blackberries, pomegranates and raisins from the Hi-Top near our office. </div>
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In place of the nut medley, I crush oat and honey granola bars because nuts are super expensive here!</div>
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I add dark brown sugar and a pinch of salt for a more rounded flavor.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="font-size: 13px; text-align: center;">Image from <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgE5rmDzac3fOVMqnrKwONBevpW30adz4lDsdw_FCqayB7ID9b3KgoESCFxAmXPSWq0jN8k8wRP7l121kwxXi5cRBRyjbe8_kBHbnz_xieIK4dD8lQKw7rcMuVTYqjVNLc8wljCMA/s400/Beet+and+Goat+Cheese+Arugula+Salad.JPG" target="_blank">The Recipe Girl</a><br />
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I think I can eat salad everyday if I can make them interesting like this. For the most part, I like fresh elements in them like fruits, and crunchy elements like nuts too.<br />
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I plan to make 1 new salad at least 2-3 times a week and eat it with some good soup too!<br />
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I think I went a bit overboard with my food excitement. This isn't actually a food post! (But will post my salad misadventures here too!)<br />
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But on to the other (non-food) ingredients for the perfect day!<br />
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2. Meaningful conversations<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I love this photo! What a hoot! Image from <a href="http://www.keithabraham.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/meaningful.png" target="_blank">here.</a></td></tr>
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To be honest, if you gave me good food and added good conversation along with it, it would already be a pretty awesome day for me. I love being able to talk to people and to learn about what their lives are like. A lot of the time though, my shyness gets to me, and so when faced with a new person, I end up clamming up or over editing myself even before I utter a word -- but I hope to remedy this soon!<br />
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My friend Candice and I were talking about meeting at least one new person a week through various activities -- but I think, if I am able to have even a short but meaningful conversation with one of my good friends or even with family, or even with a stranger, it would make me very happy indeed!<br />
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Here's to conquering my terrible shyness and to letting new people in!<br />
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3. A sense of purpose and fulfillment in a job well done.<br />
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I have this bad habit of puttering. I putter around my tasks -- walking around my room in search of some distraction, or of surfing the web in the face of a waiting deadline. I hope to make the most out of my time by focusing more on the tasks I have -- that way, I have more time to devote to my passion projects: to reading more literature, to writing more of it, and to fulfilling more dreams big or small.<br />
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4. Exercise and a sense that I am taking care of my body<br />
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Those who know me know that when it comes to exercise, I am the laziest person there is. I do regret how I have let my laziness get the better of me. All my health indiscretions have led me to this: to a state where I always ponder and worry about the state of my health. I read a saying about workouts that I agree with completely: I always regret when I don't, but I never regret when I do. To having the drive to do what needs to be done, finally. </div>
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5. Adventure in the form of a new experience or learning discovery</div>
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New people, new experiences, new stories discovered -- anything that will remind me that there are so many things that I have yet to see! This thought reminds me of something an acquaintance of mine said before: At 30, and with the way people live their lives right now, this very well be my mid-life (crisis) optional. I don't want to blame myself at the end of it because I spent too much time being scared to do things (or of being judged because of doing things). </div>
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I want to be brave enough to initiate conversations with strangers and to just do things without fear of being judged or of failing or looking stupid. Life's too short!<br />
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6. Gratitude as expressed through prayer and good deeds<br />
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Every year when November rolls around, I always find myself wishing that I lived in a country that celebrates Thanksgiving -- not just because turkey dinners look awesome (but don't they?), but because I think that gratefulness is so undervalued. More and more, I'm realizing that having a grateful heart and a grateful disposition makes going through every day so much more enriching and worthwhile. When you are grateful you are mindful of what is around you instead of what you don't have. You are reminded of how blessed you are.<br />
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It surprised me a bit that I put prayer in here, because honestly, it has been a long, long time since I've prayed. I keep confusing religion for spirituality, and at this point, I find that I am not ready to draw the boundary lines that religion (most religions) require me to do. But I just realized that being uncertain about some church dogmas should not stop me from being able to pray for guidance and to thank God for all the little things in my life, because there are so many. I think being able to pray and to put things in perspective is a good way to end and begin the day and to make room for another wonderful one.<br />
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Hopefully the increased awareness of how blessed I am will translate to a more sustainable way of being more positive and doing good deeds to help others.<br />
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These are the major ones that I've thought of so far, and as I continue on with this year, I hope to keep you posted on my attempts to have as many perfect days as possible.<br />
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What about you? What are your ingredients to a perfect day? I'd love to hear from you! Do leave me a comment here! Hope you have more perfect days too. We all deserve it :)</div>
</div>Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-30367134478482429822012-06-05T12:21:00.003+08:002012-06-05T12:22:49.631+08:00what do you sacrifice for your dream?<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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I haven't written so much this summer, which is a bit ironic, because I thought I would be writing up a storm. Well, I am, but not the kind of writing that I thought I would be doing. I've been working. A lot. Just as summer began, I literally found myself swept up by a work opportunity, and so my days went there --- I was (still am) being paid to write. Nothing literary: releases, newsy types of articles, manifestos and the like. I don't like the writing part of it much, because it feels too technical and thankless at times. But it is for a cause I believe in, and it pays well (particularly when combined with another writing job that I have), and I suppose this is why I am sticking to it and have committed myself to it for the time being.<br />
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It is by no means easy, and there are times in my day when I have to ask myself why I am doing this. The answer is really quite quick to come: I am doing it for the money. It came as a surprise to me, especially after the decade that I had, how I could find myself earning as much money as this -- a lawyer's salary almost, even if I am not a lawyer. On the one hand, it feels good, knowing that I can provide for myself well enough by my writing skills alone. I know that I am committed to doing this (and to not writing literary stuff for the time being) because I want to save up enough to fund my dream of studying and living abroad.<br />
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This new mentality comes as a surprise to me because when I started working, there were so many things that I wasn't willing to put up with. But maybe that was because I found advertising to be so thankless. Or maybe, I really was just too idealistic going in. I'd like to think that I was able to draw the line somewhere, and move in a progressive way, learning from one job to the next, finding myself better and in a better place to work too somehow. Now, there are still parts of the job that I find difficult to deal with, but I find myself more pliable to the things that are thrown my way. I see myself being able to stick to it for longer, far longer than I ever have before.<br />
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So for now, I am sacrificing my time, doing the work because I know that it will help provide for the dream that I hope to achieve. It feels almost grown up, to be honest, to give up something of my self for a bigger goal. I haven't felt very grownup in a long time, but I do right now.Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-76472709546531992882012-05-15T01:16:00.001+08:002012-05-15T01:16:50.737+08:00clean cuts<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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I'm beginning to think that clean cuts aren't at all possible.<br />
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I cried today. It was the first time I've let myself cry in a long, long time. It was during a conversation with a friend whom I had cut out of my life. She was just trying to be a good friend, thinking that I had already recovered from all the things that have haunted me in the past year. But I haven't. I think, with the passing of time, that I've gotten worse. At handling things. At hoping.<br />
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In the middle of her begging me to meet her, I just found myself blurting out every reason why I couldn't see her. Ever. And it made me cry. Because she was still so nice. Because I was reminded of why she is a much better person than I am.<br />
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Because she is an example of someone living out my life the way it is supposed to. Orderly, successful, driven. Instead I am here. Cutting off people left and right. And then sobbing right after that.<br />
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I suppose it was coming. You don't spend two weeks in isolation and then deal with your worst insecurities on a daily basis and not pay for it somehow. This is the true price that I am paying for my desire to handle this job I think. I wonder what it is about me that reeks the most of strange?Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-48402336591668795722012-05-01T12:57:00.000+08:002012-05-01T12:57:34.895+08:00Open eyes, Open heartA couple of months ago, I was offered a wonderful opportunity. If I accepted it, I would be paid to go around 5 cities in the Philippines to interview members of Amnesty International for an advocacy video that my friend was producing. The only problem was that I would have to miss nearly two weeks of school. I tossed and turned about it, feeling so conflicted about what my focus was. Was it school? Was it life? Was it necessarily one or the other?<br />
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In my journal, while trying to decide, I wrote:<br />
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"But isn't truly living and having outstanding memories a better pay-off than (just) being successful? Still at the forked road and I still cannot seem to decide. At some point in my life story, I know that I will have to choose: to jump off the bridge and see if I will fall or fly - maybe now is the time?"<br />
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I jumped. And I flew. And oh, the things I saw!<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Taking in the sights (and bites!) of Cebu!!!</td></tr>
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Clockwise: Me in front of the one of the Sto. Nino Church, a curious (and surprised!) couple at the park, setting up audio for the interviews, Deng running in front of the Fort San Pedro, Zubuchon!, and Deng's "pig" face<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Lovely Dumaguete</td></tr>
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Clockwise: One of our delicious seafood dishes in Lab-as, us walking around the Silliman grounds, a strange but lovely bench along the boardwalk, three old men who reminded me of my dad (and a shipwreck!), the idyllic boardwalk view<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">the charming Silliman University in Dumaguete</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Colorful Zamboanga</td></tr>
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Clockwise: the beautiful and architecturally interesting airport, the super-funky trike and the very demure ladies of Zambo, a knickerbocker during sunset by the beach, Zamboanga sunset, me and deng looking stoked, Curacha!!!, and the top of the Zamboanga City Hall<br />
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I wish I had more photos of Davao and Cagayan de Oro! I don't know why I don't. Baaaahhh.<br />
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Easily the best decision I've made all year. Here's to bigger, bolder leaps!<br />
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<br />Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-84447623063861068802012-05-01T12:25:00.001+08:002012-05-01T12:25:47.889+08:00Lessons learned from leapingI wrote this in my journal while in one of my favorite writing spots: the CAL (College of Arts and Letters) Library. I had been meaning to post it much earlier, but after the time I spent running around for this project, I became consumed with making up for my many absences. But I did catch up, quite well actually :) I am grateful for that too -- and it merits its own post.<br />
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March 1, 2012 11:25 AM CAL Library<br />
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And so I am back home after the whole jet-setting life of jumping in and out of planes and running in and out of different places so quickly -- I loved meeting the inspiring people that we met. I wish I could have been less conscious of myself and more engaging with them -- I know that this is something that I have to work on.<br />
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I do feel at home here in the CAL Library, and I've come to appreciate the time when I sit here and write and ponder on my life. While there are so many other questions to answer, I celebrate that for the meantime, I have found a place where I can run to and be uninterrupted with my thoughts -- without the fear of being scolded or judged with how I am living my life.<br />
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But there are so many lessons that I learned from this trip, culled from all the great people that I've met.<br />
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From Deng: I learned that you should believe in yourself, in your value as a person, believe that you are as cool or as boring as you allow yourself to be. I also learned that true friends listen to you and are concerned about your life.<br />
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From all the interesting Volunteers and Members of Amnesty International (I worked on a video advocacy project that had me travelling to 5 different cities in 2 weeks):<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">That's me working during one of our shoots around Cebu!</td></tr>
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From Hope/Mamou: I learned that you can gather courage from your oppression. It doesn't define you. Turn it into something that can help or inspire others. Hope, known as Mamou by AI members in Davao, was once a battered wife. Instead of letting the beating get to her, she used it as motivation to empower others so that it didn't happen to them. She always opened her home to everyone who needed a sanctuary, somewhere to be themselves in. Her joy was infectious.<br />
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From Strauss: Mamou's brother, also an AI activist in Davao, I learned that there are people who are so selfless that they devote their lives to fighting the causes of others. I was inspired by how simple and how kind they were -- yet they were also so passionate about all the things that they did.<br />
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From Date Ed Rosales (Datu Chieftain of the Bagobo tribe): I learned that one must be proud of where he came from. Celebrate your roots. Keep who you are inherently and work hard at keeping it pure. In trying to find good partners to align with his tribe, he taught us how to be careful not to succumb to political leanings. He always thought about what was good for his tribe, long-term.<br />
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From Yasser: He is a young AI member from the Tausug tribe. I learned how one should be real and uninhibited. He joyfully celebrated differences and embraced what made them similar instead. From him, I learned too that one must be humble enough to trust.<br />
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From the LGBT AI members: Own your decisions. Campaign for what you think is right. But be respectful and respectable about it.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My friend Deng pondering the state of being on a street named Little Children in Dumaguete<br /></td></tr>
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From Jia: She was a lovely and vibrant member of AI Dumaguete who left an abusive relationship. She is a single mother with an equally charming son. You would never think that someone as happy and cheerful as her had gone through something as painful as that. From her I learned that you can still have a life even after your old one falls to pieces -- find places where you can learn to be strong, acknowledge that you are weak, but work to continuously improve.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">That's Jia looking fab on set, Deng the director is in black</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Our tiny crew with the happy members of AI Dumaguete</td></tr>
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I loved seeing life lived in different parts of the Philippines. From seeing the sights and meeting the people, I saw how one could be happy anywhere. It was really just a matter of deciding how to see your life's circumstances and how to go about moving from there. <div>
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Rereading this post made me so happy that I was able to have this experience. It really was a gift. Thank you universe!</div>Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-82092002321295648022012-04-17T01:34:00.000+08:002012-04-17T01:34:35.793+08:00Parents<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://twistynoodle.com/media/img/r/mom-and-dad/parents/parents_coloring_page_jpg_468x609_q85.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://twistynoodle.com/media/img/r/mom-and-dad/parents/parents_coloring_page_jpg_468x609_q85.jpg" width="308" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Photo from <a href="http://twistynoodle.com/media/img/r/mom-and-dad/parents/parents_coloring_page_jpg_468x609_q85.jpg">here.</a></td></tr>
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So my parents are at a funeral tonight. It's their 3rd one in the last 5 days. Thankfully (not for the ones who've lost their loved ones, of course -- may they rest in peace) tonight's wake is for someone who is older than them (one of their friend's dad I think); but the other 2 were relatively contemporaries both in age and and lifestyle. Having my parents go off to these funerals feels terrifying and unsettling for me. While it is a fact of life that people die and that more often than not, our parents die before us, I question whether I am ready to survive a life without them. Most days, I think I am not. I question whether they have taught me (or whether I have learned) enough life skills to live on, and I also question if they feel like they know me well enough to make a pronouncement on whether or not I have made them proud as a person.<br />
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A lot of the time, during the most random things, I find myself looking at them and thinking about things I will miss about them when they are gone. Like how my mom falls asleep every time without fail when praying the rosary, even if she is the one leading it. Like how my dad's shirt hangs over his belly when he's sleeping, exposing his midriff to the cool air of the electric fan. Like how my dad bangs on my door in the morning to let me know that we are eating breakfast. Like how when I look at my mom, even when she is being obstinately difficult and irrational, I see a sense of survival that I find myself depending on and that I am not sure I have. Like how when I turn on the radio in search of happy sunday music (mostly standards), I often see my dad's rounded figure tapping his fingers out on the table because he loves those too.<br />
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I am thirty now. It is such a strange and scary place. I thought I would know more, be more -- but I'm not sure I do, I definitely know that I'm not (as I imagined I would be at this age). What I can pride myself on though is that I am trying. Always trying. With weekend plans, with my daily life, with my plans for the future. But what I am sure of is that I am thirty, I am not quite ready to be without parents yet. Not to move out, not to get married, and certainly not to fend for myself in the case of untimely demise (DEAR GOD NO). Who knew that I would be feeling this way at thirty? I know sometime in the future I must be ready, or at the very least, willing to live in a world where I have the most grownup opinion that I can count on. But not yet, God. Not yet.Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-34959909236258759382012-04-01T11:17:00.000+08:002012-04-01T11:17:11.089+08:00On turning 30<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.ncglists.org/news/wp-content/uploads/Turning30Wordle_cropped.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="186" src="http://www.ncglists.org/news/wp-content/uploads/Turning30Wordle_cropped.jpg" width="400" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Image from <a href="http://www.ncglists.org/news/wp-content/uploads/Turning30Wordle_cropped.jpg" target="_blank">here.</a></td></tr>
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I turned 30 a few days ago, and it went very differently than I thought it would. For the longest time, I have been dreading turning 30 because of recent developments (or non-developments) in my life that have set me back and changed my views of the world from how I perceived it a few years ago. For one, nearly my entire twenties was spent working in attempts to survive law school. All of this work was geared towards becoming a lawyer at the end of all that work and hopefully settling into a financially stable and exhausting (though rewarding) work life. When I turned 29 last year, I got the most devastating (I'm still recovering from its trauma) news of my life learning that I had failed the bar. The knowledge that I could fail something I had put so much into really crippled me, and I cut off many friends and hid from the world for a year trying to recover from the news. I couldn't make myself take the exam again and I had to really ask myself if I was willing to spend another year of my life working towards something that felt so futile and so thankless.<br />
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After a year of being inactive, of trying to grapple with who I am as a person and with what strengths I do have, I decided to forego taking the bar (indefinitely), choosing instead to work towards rediscovering my passions and capabilities. I am entrenched in the creative writing world now and on most days, it feels like this is (as it always has been) a much more comfortable fit for me than law ever was. Still, so much of my life feels like a question. I wonder always if not taking the bar is the correct step, if I will regret that I put it off for so long, or even if I could make as much as I did had I chosen to focus on becoming a lawyer and not on rediscovering creative writing.<br />
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I had thought that turning 30 would give me this clarity that would make me see things from an entirely different perspective, but the day crept in quietly, and without much fanfare. There were no glaring epiphanies or sudden directions or life paths discovered, only an awareness that I had been around for 30 decades now, and that I had better learn to enjoy the small moments as much as I look forward to the bigger ones. Life is made so much of the smaller moments, and I suppose these are the things you remember when you look back on your life later on.<br />
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If this year has taught me anything, it would be that life too is so much about having the courage to take chances. I had thrown myself into the ringer by accepting a project that allowed me to travel to 5 different cities in less than 10 days so close to all my deadlines, leaving little time for me to work on them. But I did it anyway and came out (for the most part unscathed). So much of my life and my decisions are based on the prudent options, always foregoing adventure for what is expected, what is practical. This time, I just really wanted to do it without questioning if I could or couldn't.<br />
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I took this lesson and applied it to my birthday, and how I wanted to celebrate my life from hereon. It was an exercise in deciding how I wanted to do things, and then finding a way to do them anyway. I heralded its arrival with a few friends who stayed with me till midnight, over tapas and sangrias. I spent time with my family, and then gave myself the chance to relax and take it all in on a weekend jaunt to Baguio, one of my favorite places to visit. As I sit here now, by the balcony, enjoying the cool air while writing off the delicious food I had from the buffet, I feel quite pleased at the idea of wanting something and then making it happen.<br />
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Hopefully this is the start of a more conscious, more deliberate life, focused on the little things as well as on the big things. I want to stop fearing things and do more of them. Off the top of my head, I want to dare to dream about standing on a surfboard, riding a bike, go to Europe, kiss someone, and maybe even fall in love. I want to try new food, meet new people, find something that I am absolutely passionate about, and reclaim my fitness. I want to really feel alive, finally.<br />
<br />Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-54738919705659354612012-03-16T23:42:00.000+08:002012-03-16T23:42:18.298+08:00oh yes!<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Image from <a href="http://babydickey.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/its-worth-it.jpg">here.</a></td></tr>
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So many things have happened since I last posted. I stopped thinking and started doing and although I haven't had decent sleep and my muscles are all aching and my neck hasn't stopped twitching from all the stress of deadlines ending side by side by side, tonight my idol writing teacher said I had talent and I feel like I could go all the way to the moon and back. This coming from the same professor who began calling me "You" because he couldn't remember me for nearly the entire semester and who inadvertently made me cry after he called my way of thinking pedestrian. I have been on the edge and I have questioned my self-worth but just having him call me by name and tell me that made all the pain and exhaustion just so worth it.<br />
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There are so many other things to be grateful for, and I will outline them once I have finished all of my requirements -- but I didn't want this moment to go undocumented. Thank you universe! And thank you kind Sir!<br />
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So for all the times you question if it is all worth it, let days like this remind you :)Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-54835020773552749012012-02-14T16:46:00.000+08:002012-02-14T16:46:16.262+08:00Love<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-UxUkYJ-IIxo/TwDgEixILpI/AAAAAAAAGaU/nMXt2QWzpc0/s1600/Love.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="300" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-UxUkYJ-IIxo/TwDgEixILpI/AAAAAAAAGaU/nMXt2QWzpc0/s400/Love.jpg" width="400" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Image from <a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-UxUkYJ-IIxo/TwDgEixILpI/AAAAAAAAGaU/nMXt2QWzpc0/s1600/Love.jpg" target="_blank">here.</a></td></tr>
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Valentine's Day was always a sour point with me, especially when I was in college and even when I was in law school; there is always this pressure that one feels whenever they are with their contemporaries (or is it just me?). When you are around people the same age as you, and who are in more or less the same circumstances, you are always made to wonder what is so wrong about you that you couldn't find someone to fall for you in that swooning, drooling way. You are made to see people in the throes of romance, holding hands in the halls, dressed up for special somewheres and you ask yourself what the hell is wrong with you. All my years in school have more or less gone that way, so much so that I have come to hate Valentine's Day and all the judgment (self-inflicted and otherwise) that came with it. <br />
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But I think so much of the (imagined) trauma comes from heightened expectations. Whether or not you are in a relationship, all of a sudden there is this urgent need to label and assess your romantic inclinations or your potential to be the recipient of such. (It amuses me that I now sound like a professor of sorts -- well, I have been analyzing my non-existent love life long enough to be an expert!) And when your current state falls short of romantic norms (and it will, because of said heightened expectations) you belittle the love that you do have in your life -- be it from family, friends, or (if you are so lucky) paramours.<br />
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I have learned that the best way to survive this holiday is to expect little, but to love more. Love yourself. Love your life. Love all the things that make you smile about your day. Love the friends you do have, love the time you have to yourself, love the space in your heart that's still open and hoping for romantic love.<br />
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This will be my last Valentine's day as a twenty-something, and I will be celebrating it alone as I always have. I am not (no longer) bitter about not having found love yet; and I have stopped blaming myself for all my perceived faults and shortcomings. For now, I am secure in the idea that I spend my days trying to be the kind of person that I want to become -- Hopeful. Always striving for the future -- for something better. Striving but at the same time grateful enough to celebrate what I do have now. I have family, who, though they show it in the strangest of ways, love me and care for my welfare. I have friends who celebrate who I am now, but who also believe in who I can become. I have myself, and (finally) the awareness that I have today to be alive and to make what I can of it. So while I dream of romantic love, I will not be bitter if it doesn't come. Every day, alone or with someone, is a gift.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Image from <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgk9x249lzDYnbVcqsMLz25bjkd1JCGWReMyB_7ivd6DDLXykGQNMFohTTfhCO3ZekryASWOjfWZ22tSmMYTEyO8sbQ0a1A4Vb05ErLPCcPW31m_xvwNP5pDrGxRqI4QYpU-rQw/s1600/normal_cute-love-quote.jpg" target="_blank">here. </a></td></tr>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">P.S. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;">Spent the earlier part of the day watching The English Patient for my Brit-Lit class (it was so good!), the middle part of the day reading and writing and letting people I love know that I love them, and then spending tonight with high school girlfriends for our annual Valentine's Day dinner (an event which we have been doing since we were 13 year old freshmen!) My life is full, and for that, I feel blessed. Hope you realize how full of love your life is too!</span>Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5820640.post-68428500200967158842012-02-03T01:47:00.000+08:002012-02-03T01:47:18.870+08:00Encountering my 16 year-old self<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Image from <a href="http://img17.imageshack.us/img17/9473/inspireu.jpg" target="_blank">here.</a></td></tr>
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1:16 AM</div>
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I spent the day doing much of nothing, all I achieved was
attending class and taking a whole day to finish something that usually takes
me about 2 hours to finish. And then I wasted the day refreshing Facebook and
group-buying sites scouring for deals that will enable me to have a semblance
of a life that I can (not really) afford. </div>
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I wanted to save some part of today, have it not be a waste.
And so I decided I wanted to write something more fun – less of a task to check
off my list (though I’ve been doing pretty okay in that aspect, save for the
exercise and eating better). An ever present thought in my mind is that I am
turning thirty in less than 2 months, and contrary to what I had imagined, I am
not the success I thought I was going to be. But what am I, really?</div>
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I know there is a more comprehensive list of dreams that are
lying around, but this is one that I take from when I was 16 years old. It was
part of a scrapbook project for PROSEC (a personality development class) and when
I had run out of album space to fill, I started writing on a sheet of paper all
the unspoken dreams that I could fit into it. </div>
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Here they are:</div>
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<span style="font-family: Symbol;"><span>·<span style="font: 7pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><strike>I will be a consistent dean’s lister </strike>(must qualify: College, not law school)<strike><br /></strike></div>
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check, but I’ve been able to own so much more! Haha how very 90s of me to dream
of a pager</div>
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needs work. Maybe I can jam with a band?</div>
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</span></span></span>I will be a good mother – again, let’s start
with a date, any date! HELP.</div>
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</span></span></span>I will be an obedient daughter – When does being
obedient end?</div>
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</span></span></span>I will bring my parents to wherever they want to
go – okay, so not check. But there’s still time!</div>
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</span></span></span><strike>I will work for a well-known communications
company</strike> – I did, until I realized how much I hated advertising</div>
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</span></span></span>I will progress fast – hmm.</div>
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</span></span></span>I will send and pay for my brother’s schooling –
didn’t think I’d be broke till now</div>
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</strike></span></span></span><strike>I will take up law in the college best for me</strike> –
check? But I really wanted to go to the other school initially + I failed the
bar</div>
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</strike></span></span></span><strike>I will be a leader in YFC </strike>- check</div>
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</span></span></span><strike>I will get myself a blowdryer </strike>– never got one
BUT bought myself an Instyler AND my parents gave me one for Christmas (pero
mehn ang babaw nito haha)</div>
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</strike></span></span></span><strike>I will get a CD player </strike>– check! Haha how funny I
was at 16</div>
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</span></span></span>I will team lead in a camp – never did. </div>
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</span></span></span>I will star in a play – never did.</div>
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</span></span></span>I will play piano – there are days when I feel
like I still could. </div>
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There you go. An insight into a dream and the reality that
came with it. I know there’s really no time limit. For my thirtieth birthday, I
would just like to begin and approach it with an aura of gratefulness for
everything that I’ve dreamed and made happened, and even those that didn’t. </div>Happily Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01897146815672263386noreply@blogger.com0